I recently met a guy online and we arranged to have dinner last week. Well, we both weren't feeling well, so we decided to reschedule it for this week.
I don't know why, but I just couldn't sense a chemistry, even communicating via text, phone and email. I'm not going to get into the ins and outs of why I didn't feel it - I just didn't. So I told him I didn't want to meet.
I just couldn't go through the "how are you/let's get to know each other/let's see if there is chemistry/tell me about your family and your hobbies and your favorite color" even for a few hours over dinner. I just couldn't do it, when I'd just be going through the motions.
He respected my decision and thanked me for being honest. He thanked ME?! He also said he thinks I'm a cool person and he'd like to be friends. Gosh...now I feel like the schmuck.
But, I honestly thought it would be better calling off the date if I did not feel the same way. Maybe going through with it would've been worse and less honest?
I hope so.
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